Not the knight in a shining armor or the dainty damsel

Although soulmates waltz into our lives with such a swing that matches our rhythm in every step, taking our breath away, they are not always the knight in a shining armor or the darling dainty damsel we always think they are. They can be that but they are also the villains who wreak havoc in our otherwise normal lives.

SoulCafe –Soul Connections on your Mobile

Brewing real Conversations and Connections that lasts a lifetime. SoulCafe the platform that aims at building long term Soul Relationships for urban Indian singles is now available for Android devices.  After the web presence (www.soulcafe.co.in) it’s the next logical step forward. So here we are! SoulCafe is not for everybody and it recommends people to…

Go on the highway to heaven-on-earth!

Typically, I find relationship posts funny, like –“How to build strong life-long relationships?” or perhaps – “How to find and keep romance alive in a relationship?” or whatever?! There are so many such self-help advice strewn around in media. The cliche is beyond hilarious.  The futility of these posts ( well, no offence to the well paid columnists…

Friends: How many is too many ?

This article explores if there are cognitive limits to the number of individuals humans can maintain meaningful social relationships with. And in case of such limits, does the era of social media defy it all?

The Journey of “Finding Yourself”

This article tries to explore the concept of “Individuation” , taking characters from the movies as examples. This process of transformation is difficult, yet beautiful. A caterpillar needs to transform into a butterfly to spread joy and beauty – would you rather prefer the caterpillar to stay “as is”, because you fear it will fly away…

Give up “Pygmalion Projects” in your Relationships

There is an interesting Greek story about a great sculptor named Pygmalion who found all the women of Cyprus imperfect and decided to create a sculpture based on his idea of the perfect woman. It took him several months to complete the statue, but his creation looked so perfect that he fell in love with it – he called her Galatea. However, Pygmalion increasingly…

Growing in or Growing out of Love

They were in love – the so called truly, madly and deeply love. They held each other’s hands firmly and  started on their  life journey of togetherness. “Your dreams are mine and mine yours or now it’s just ours” – they vowed to one another. Everything seemed just so very perfect. They were in sync, in…